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Monday, March 14, 2011

Don't hate us...

So...we have been blessed with pretty much the best baby ever. Seriously, it makes me nervous to ever have another one because Zoe is sooooo easy. Don't get me wrong, we have had our rough days...but all in all, she's pretty amazing. The first week or two was pretty hard, she had some serious stomach issues/gas pains and was crying a lot of the time, but the doctor suggested some medicine that seemed to help pretty quickly. So by 2 weeks, she was sleeping through the night. Yes, you read that correctly. Our 2-week old baby was sleeping through the night. The first night it happened, it scared me to death. When I woke up and realized, I ran in to her room to make sure she was ok. The next few nights it happened, I thought it was a fluke. Now we are at 6 weeks and I don't think there has been a night that she hasn't slept all the way through. And YES, I know how lucky we are!

Once we got back to Morogoro, I thought we might be in for some hard days since there would be so many changes for her (and have I mentioned how miserably hot it is here?) It didn't affect her sleeping at night and she actually started taking longer naps during the day (probably because of the heat). She DOES NOT like to take naps and will not fall asleep unless she is swaddled (which stinks, because she hates being swaddled). She often falls asleep while she is nursing, and I was letting her sleep afterwards....but when we got back to Tanzania, we decided we really needed to get her on a schedule. So I got in this bad habit of rocking/bouncing/swinging her to sleep in my arms and then laying her down for her naps. If she woke up, she would cry and I would pick her up and this went on for a while. So, finally we decided we needed to just lay her down in her crib as she was getting sleepy and let her learn how to go to sleep on her own.
*On a sidenote...this is EXTREMELY stressful anytime a Tanzanian is around because they think you are absolutely torturing your baby if you don't pick them up the moment they start crying. If we have the lady who cleans our house inside, she will immediately notify me that Zoe is crying and if I don't go pick her up right away, she notifies me again and again until I go get her. One time I told her (in Swahili) that if I let Zoe just cry for a minute, she will fall back asleep. She gave me this look like I had no idea what I was talking about.*

Anyway, so the first time we attempted to put her in her crib while she was still awake, I was fully prepared for some crying and multiple attempts and many days before success. So we wrapped her up, layed her down, and walked out. She screamed and I wanted to cry and go pick her up. Literally, not even 5 minutes later the crying had stopped and she was asleep. Seriously?! Could it be that easy? Apparently, for Zoe...it is. She usually cries for just a few minutes and she is off to sleep. Although I frequently get angry at Nate for his sleeping habits, I must say that Zoe has definitely taken after her father in her sleeping and I could not be happier! She sleeps for about an hour or more every 3 hours and more often than not, I wake her up to feed her (and to stick to the schedule...I'm a planner!). She is still sleeping atleast 7-8 hours at night and we are pretty much the most blessed parents in the world!

Yes, I know we are extremely lucky and most babies aren't like this. Yes, I know that if (and when) we have another, he or she probably won't be as easy...but in the mean time we are enjoying our sweet little girl (and our sleep!)

Here is a picture of her in her crib:

2 comments:

  1. Yay for an update! So glad to hear she is such an easy baby. She is just beautiful. Love y'all!

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  2. well that's wonderful news. And from a non-parent, that is said while NOT harboring secret jealous feelings :) I'm glad she's so easy-going. Must be the laid back African lifestyle she has. Oh, and I remember learning in my developmental psychology classes and my CHFD classes about how America is one of the only cultures that actually lets children cry themselves to sleep and use separate nurseries, etc. Other people think we are awful! I guess cultures can learn from one another though :) Love you!

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